Photo by Jason Sexton.
It’s eight in
the morning and I’m looking at a clean line of blood running down the side of
my ribs. I forgot to shave while I was in the shower, so I stand, scraping the
hair off my armpits with a fifty-cent disposable razor, dry skinned and eyes still
bleary from the steam of the shower lingering in the bathroom. I slip on my
t-shirt dress, now painted with a thin red streak, only to realize that I have
found myself the brunt of a cruel trick: why am I shaving my armpits if no one
is going to see them? I had become so used to my morning routine of marring myself
that I forgot to think about why I was doing it.
The history of
American women shaving is not as extensive as you may think. Although the
Egyptians were known to use beeswax and alkali to strip their follicles clean, us
westerners did not start shaving until around 1915, with the rise in popularity
of both sheer sleeves and higher hemlines on dresses. "The Woman of
Fashion says the underarm must be as smooth as the face," was a popular phrase
used in early women’s razor ads.
I threw the
question out to my friends, and got a series of passionate responses. My friend
Erin, who is an adjunct professor at a private college, said that when she
stopped shaving halfway through her undergrad years, she immediately felt emboldened
and renewed. She attributes some of her initial confidence to being in a
healthy relationship with a guy who made her feel comfortable in exploring her
options, but went on to say that her decision ultimately shifted her views on
gender. “My
body hair became more than a quirky experiment meant to make me feel unique or
“comfortable” with my “naturalness”: it redefined my understanding of beauty in
relation to gender. Femininity and masculinity are finite terms and beauty is
something we embrace rather than achieve.”
Many of the women I
talked to who shave religiously said that in addition to making them feel
empowered and sexy, shaving their hair also eliminated body odor. Others said
that they had previously been in a situation where they felt comfortable
growing their body hair out, but when they returned to their everyday life,
found themselves bombarded with questions and strange looks. Ultimately, many
of these women found it was easier to just shave.
Although deciding to remain in our untamed, hairy-state, can be a
political statement, it doesn’t have to be. A few of my friends said that they
were just too plain lazy to keep up with regular grooming, and others said that
they just don’t see the point. My friend Amanda responded coolly, “I shave sometimes and I don't shave other times because it
doesn't matter."
Like so many issues, the
heart of the problem comes down to choice. Whether a woman chooses to shave should
be up to her, and she shouldn’t be bullied into modifying her body for someone
else.
Do you shave? Got an opinion? Leave it below- I'd love to open up a little forum for friendly discussion!
